The Mraz Family
Grandma Mraz was Born in Prague, Bohemia and came
to the United States when 30 years old. Her maiden
name was Mary Barbara Kobler. Her parents operated
a tavern inn Prague. She came to this country with
a trunk full of beautiful things with intent to
marry a man by the name of Fialla but the wedding
never took place. When I was visiting Jim and Ruth
in Michigan at one time I saw a bank by the name
of Fialla. Later Grandma Mraz married a man by the
name of Martin Mraz. He was a cabinet maker. He
died at an early age with tuberculoses. There were
many cousins on the Mraz side in Canton, Ohio by
name of Lhota, Franta, Hromatha. The Franta family
had a sign shop and is still in existence to this
day and has enlarged. The father was John who was
an artist and married an Irish lady by name of Therese
Mallory. Ann Lhota married a man by name of Fitzmaurice.
Ed Mraz was very chummy with his cousins. He went
hunting with John Franta and fishing with Al Lhota.
We visited the Fitzmaurice family quite often n
Sunday afternoons and Ed and Tom Fitmaurice had
many discussions, politics. Ed a forceful Republican
and Tom a Democrat. Also they would listen to Father
Coughlin who was on the air at that time. The cousins
would visit one another back and forth. Visiting
in Canton one time a dear friend Leona Danver was
in a Nursing Home and Louise Mraz took me to see
her. On the way out I saw John Franta a very feeble
old man sitting in a wheelchair. He didn't recognize
me. Ed and I belonged to a Bridge Club. Clara and
Clarence Lang, Frand and Ruth Hannon, Elsie and
Bill Pfeifer and Ed and I made the foursome. Frank
Hannon and Ed had a lot in common. Frank was the
founder of the Hannon electric Supply Co. and Ed
bought from him for Republic Stamping and Enameling
Co. where he was purchasing agent for the company.
It seems the only time I left the house when the
children were young was with Ed to card parties.
We would get a baby sitter and go to the Parish
St. Johns Catholic Church card parties and a movie
and the Bridge Club. We had a set of "Books
of Knowledge" and the children got read a story
each night before going to bed. Doris Tillitzki
helped me with the children by taking them out in
the carriage for a walk, wash the dishes after supper
and go on errands if necessary. Doris later became
an R.N. and said to me she learned much helping
us. We gave her $3.00 a week. We visited Grandmother
quite often on Sunday afternoons and sometimes would
stay for supper. Anne and Mary Mraz were maiden
ladies. Anne was a born musician and would play
on the pump organ in their parlor. She played by
heart and never took lessons until later in life.
Later when Anne could afford a piano she played
more and more. There were four children. Ed was
the oldest. Charles (Chick) married the woman he
wrote to after receiving sweater she helped knit
with her name on it when overseas in the army. They
had three children Bill, Larry and Helen who became
a nun with the name of Sr. M. Remigia. Larry lived
in Cincinnati, Ohio after marriage. The family seemed
to be troubled with cancer. Larry is deceased, Bill
married Louise Helstern and they live in Canton,
Ohio and have I think eight children. Louise is
a nurse and worked at Mercy Hospital nursing home
when I was employed there in the office. Later I
was told she thought I was Bill's mother. Chick
and Marguerete were married before Ed and me and
they came to our wedding in Columbus with their
first born Helen. Anne was ill and in bed at 475
Siebert St. on my wedding day and I remember going
to see her with my wedding dress on. Aunt Anne as
the Ed Mraz children called her was plagued with
a nervous disorder but still was an excellent office
girl being secretary to the president of Republic
Stamping & Enameling Co. She was hospitalized
quite often and Ed would go to see her on his noon
hour. It was quite hard on Ed because everyone would
ask about how she was getting along. She was in
the hospital when Mary Alice was born and after
I came home I wanted to take the new baby to show
her, but Ed discouraged it saying he thought that
was one reason she was in the hospital. I think
Anne at one time had a love affair and it fell through.
Why I never found out but I surmised it was because
Anne and Marry were inseparable and I don't remember
Mary ever having a boy friend. Mary was also a very
capable office worker employed by the Duer, Smith,
Lane Insurance Co. for years. Anne was a loving
warm person and she is the one I corresponded with.
They sold the house on Bluff Rd. which Ed helped
build and moved to a beautiful place on Cottage
Place in Canton. Ed and I were married in Columbus,
Ohio on Tuesday morning at 8:30 o'clock in St. Mary's
Catholic Church October 3rd, 1922. The reception
was held at home with Aunt Teenie, Uncle Joe's wife
helping. During the day Ed and I visited the office
where I was employed me with my wedding garb on
all day. Friends filled our home and in the evening
the neighborhood children stood outside and belled
us making much noise and excitement. That was done
in those days when a wedding in the neighborhood
occurred. Candy was given to the noise makers. The
friends followed us to the railway station and I
threw my wedding bouquet at that time to them. It
was evening and we took the railroad to Chicago,
Ill. and met Sister Laurene who Ed had never seen.
We stayed at the convent for a while then went to
Chicago to one of Ed's aunts. We visited around
for a few days in Chicago, went to a dance in the
evening one time. Ed was a wonderful dancer. In
fact he was wonderful in anything he attempted to
do. He was a very, very intelligent man and handsome.
When he died the undertaker said it was a shame
to bury him, his skin was so good and he had all
his teeth but one. He often said we were so well
mated we both had one tooth out an in the same place.
After marriage we moved in our newly built house
across from Grandmother Mraz and Anne & Mary.
Ed had our home on 1309 Bluff Road. N.E. built next
door to a Mrs. Diener and a Scotch couple. Mrs.
Kiener taught me how to bake Christmas Leibkuchen,
which I baked every Christmas in addition to other
Christmas. I would always send some to the office
with Ed. Wilbur Frey one of the men at the RS&E,
always remembered the Mraz children with a gift.
One year it was a huge dictionary on a stand. The
Kirbys are now enjoying it. The Scotsman wrote a
poem about Jim after he was born and I gave that
to him one time. Our 13th St. home had five peach
trees in the yard and one year I canned two hundred
quarts of peaches. Also I made ketchup and canned
tomatoes, made several kinds of jellies. Ed went
in the country to pick elderberries. I made jelly
with them. I baked bread and made my own noodles.
We had a neighbor next door by name of Mrs. Schultz
and her husband was with Bond Baking Co. During
the Second World War food was rationed and we received
food stamps. When I didn't get to the bread baking
and ran out of it Mrs. Schultz would give me some
stamps for bread. Ed had two hunting dogs Beagles
Queenie & Tiny that he was very fond of. The
dog house was attached to the garage and the dogs
would have run of it. When Ed would come home from
the office and putting the car in the garage the
dogs would greet him and he would say "how
are my sweethearts". Mrs. Schultz asked me
one day who the person is we keep in the garage.
After Ed's sudden death I gave the dogs to his hunting
partner Al Lhota. Our basement was where the laundry
was done and the other way to the back where the
shelves were for the canned goods and potatoes laid
in for the winter. The other half was the furnace
and back of that was a place for the boys to build
their hobbies. Jim built planes and all the boys
had some thing they were interested in. Their friends
came and the place was always busy.
The Agel Family
Grandma Agel came to this country from Vienna,
Austria with her husband Joseph Agel and four children
Joe, John, Amalia and a small child who died shortly
after coming to the U.S.A. Aunt Lena who married
Frank Reiser was born in the U.S.A. Grandma Agel's
maiden name was Magdalen Hager. The family were
farmers in Vienna. I never knew Grandpa Agel. He
died after a few years in the U.S. from a horse
bite. They bought a small house on Siebert St. Mama
and Grandma would talk German. In fact I learned
a German night prayers when I was about six years
old that I have said every night since. We also
learned many proverbs in German. To this day I can
remember them. Also, I think the proverbs helped
our bringing up. One of them was if you told a lie
you would never be believed ever after even though
you told the truth. Also I remember a man being
inebriated fell out of an upstairs window and died.
He lived across the street. When Mama heard of it
all she said "The way you live is the way you
die". All of this is said in German. Jim Burns,
Gertrude's husband was very fond of Mama. He said
she was a very intelligent person and had perfect
diction in English language. I went to a German
Catholic Grade School and took German in school.
At one time I could write in German as well as English.
Mama was nine years old when she came to this country
and was the oldest. I remember her being very close
to her brothers. Her brother John strayed from the
Catholic Church and she saw to it his coming back
before he died. She visited him every day at the
hospital where he died. Uncle John was a hunter
and fisherman and had ferrets and dogs and never
married. He and my father used to go fishing together.
Mama made turtle soup quite often from the fisherman's
landing them. Uncle Joe married Teenie Weyrich and
had two sons, Carl and Joseph. Aunt Lena married
Frank Reiser who had a bakery. They had quite a
few children. They did quite well in life. In fact
one was a scientist a Battel in Columbus. The Fetter
girls would always help Grandma Agel with her house
cleaning on Saturdays. Grandma Agel was in her late
seventies when she died at our home on Siebert Street
and was buried from our house. When Mama took ill
and Aunt Rowena and her husband took over our home
to care for her we put her bed in the parlor and
all of us took turns caring for her. Sr. Laurene
was principal at St. May's School she would spend
Saturdays with Mama. One day Mama sat up, stretched
here arms wide and called "Father" and
fell back and died. Sister Laurene witnessed this.
She was in the room fixing some flowers on the mantle
before she heard Mama rise. Mama was bed fast for
months. The proverb came very clear to me,"The
way you live is the way you die". Grandpa Fetter
died Jan. 1956 at age 83. Grandma Fetter died May
24, 1956 at age 87 years.
The Fetter (Vetter)
Family
Grandma fetter was born in Dresden, Germany and
eloped to the United States with Franz Vetter. Franz
Vetter was born in Sweden and since the Doersam
family in Dresden thought Franz Vetter from Sweden
below them and tried to discourage the wedding they
eloped. Franz was a carpenter. Four children were
born Frank, Louise and two who died with tuberculosis,
that being a disease very prevalent at that time.
Grandma Fetter's maiden name was Gertrude Doersam.
One relative had the Doersam Meat Market on 5th
Street in Columbus, Ohio where they (Grandma) lived.
Grandpa Fetter was killed while on the job as a
carpenter. Somehow the name Vetter was changed to
Fetter. Relatives from Dresden moved to United States
and settled in Columbus. Cousins were the Richters,
Bangerts, Thanes, Looze Doersam. After Grandma Fetter's
husband's death she married a man by the name of
Altmayer who had a shoe store on High St. in Columbus.
One son Uncle Ollie was born in that marriage. He
lived in Cincinnati, Ohio after his marriage and
visited his half bother Frank often. Aunt Louise
was a maiden lady until she was forty-one years
old meeting Uncle Charley Strauser at the cemetery
where she visited her mother's grave every Sunday.
Uncle Charley was a widower visiting his deceased
wife's grave. Aunt Louise would come to the Frank
Fetter home every Sunday for dinner before going
to the cemetery and bring her "Postum"
beverage with her. She was allergic to nicotine.
That seems to run in families to this day. Many
can't drink coffee because of the nicotine. The
Richters, Bankert and the Fetter children grew up
together and were very dear friends belonging to
clubs and going to school. Lizzetta Bankert taught
piano lessons. The Bnakerts had a meat packkng plant.
Margaret Looze was a maiden lady very beautiful
and managed the glove department at Andrew Dobbie
Dry Good Store where all the elite in Columbus shopped.
I have a linen tablecloth and napkins that Aunt
Louise hemmed from the Dobbie store given to me
at my wedding. Aunt Louise being a maiden lady while
the older Frank Fetter children were growing up
took special interest in them seeing they had beautiful
hair ribbons and clothes. She bought the first winter
new coats for me when I was about fourteen years
old. Before that I wore my older sister's hand-me-down.
My older sister was Gertrude who is twenty-two months
older. The Looze family had a summer cottage at
Buckeye Lake which was located not far from Columbus
and Aunt Louise would take Gertrude and me there
quite often over week ends. We would swim in front
of the cottages. There was a row boat at the cottage
and we would go out in that, cut the waves, watch
the sun set, etc. Later on when the Fetter children
grew up they were taken along as their age permitted.
That all stopped when Aunt Louise married Uncle
Charley Strauser. Aunt Louise and Margaret were
very dear friends all their lives even after she
married Uncle Charley. Margaret Looze saw to it
that Gertrude and I got a job at Andrew Dobbie's
who was Scotch. That proved to be a lucky stone
in our lives. Gertrude was given a job in the Blouse
Dept. on the 3rd floor, and I was cash kid, that
being one who would take bought merchandise from
the counter to counter until the customer was finished
buying and one bill was sent to the office on the
second floor. There were wires strung above the
counters and a small box would take the money and
bill to the office. There were four floors. A year
or so passed and as I grew they put me in the Suit
Department on the third floor opposite the Blouse
Department. There was great rivalry going on between
the two buyers in those departments. It was Anne
Cook who was buyer for the Suit & Coat Department.
Both ladies were very kind to us. At one time Ann
Cooke wanted to take me with her to New York on
a buying trip, but it didn't materialize. The Suit
Department was to the rear and the Alterations Dept.
was next which employed about eight ladies. A Miss
Sullivan was the boss. One day Miss Sullivan said,
"Helen you are such a young person why don't
you go back to school." I talked it over with
Mama and she decided I could go to the Columbus
Business School where I learned Pittman Shorthand
and typing. I didn't think that was enough so I
went to night school almost until I was married.
I took different subjects and Aunt Gertrude and
I belonged to a Literary Club. We discussed different
authors. I liked "Joyce Kilmer" who was
coming into the limelight then and after meeting
Ed Mraz I would in my letters to him quote Joyce
Kilmer. My first gift at Christmas from him after
marriage was two volumes of Joyce Kilmer's Memoirs
and Poems. The days at the Dobbie Store will never
be forgotten by me. Aunt Gertrude and I learned
so much. In fact when Andrew Dobbie went out of
business he told Aunt Gertrude she should never
short change yourself. You now have a college education.
And I believe that. We the Fetter children went
to St. Mary's Parochial School who at the time had
a German Father Specht who would be thunder and
lightning in the pulpit at Sunday Mass. He didn't
believe in the further education and never talked
it up. I remember him being a pompous old man that
was Catholic to the core. Your were out if ever
you went to a Protestant grade or high school. He
died and a Father Wherle was installed. His people
had the Wherle Stove Works in Newark, Ohio. He was
just the opposite of Father Specht. He could see
the potential in those German kids and immediately
built a High School. He told the parents to quit
coming to Mass on week days and see that their children
had a good breakfast and ready for school. He also
closed a German club on South High St. where men
would gather, drink beer and schnapps and have a
good time gaining a "beer belly". He told
the men to stay home and care for wife and children.
Father Wherle was too late for the two older children
in the Frank Fetter family and it was sheer luck
that Margaret Looze came into their lives. We learned
the meaningful things in life how to conduct oneself
as a lady. I remember Florence Mulligan at Dobbies
who was buyer at the Cosmetics Department. She taught
us how to manicure our fingers nails and to squeeze
finger tips to enhance the beauty of the nail. We
got to know the value of things. I remember being
in the elevator one time alone with Andrew Dobbie
the store owner. He looked at me reached in his
pocket and handed me a five dollar bill. He often
would do that to the young employees. Andrew Dobbie
from Scotland got to be a very old man and his nephew
Peter McDonald who worked at the stored didn't take
the store over. His wife was an opera singer. On
East Broad Street in Columbus there was another
elite shop called the "Grey Shop". After
the Dobbie store closed Gertrude was hired as buyer
for the Blouse Department. By that time I was a
full fledged office girl working at the Chase Foundry
in the South end in Columbus. Mr. McMillan was my
boss and each morning I had to make a run down of
certain stock prices from the morning journal. I
took dictation from different ones. I wore good
clothes from the Grey Shoppe. Grandma Fetter, my
mother, was also a good seamstress. Looking back
at St. Mary's grade school - I don't think any school
in the U.S.A. could surpass it's teaching the rudiments
of education - reading, writing, grammar, arithmetic,
spelling, geography, religion. The nuns were excellent
teachers. I doubt if any school now could parse
a sentence as well as was done them. Eight living
children were born to Frank and Amalia Fetter, seven
girls and one boy. Their names are Gertrude, Helen,
Marie (Sr. Laurene who became a nun) Lucy, Bernadine,
Rowena, Alice and Clarence. Gertrude married James
A Burns and had ten living children. Helen married
Edward M. Mraz and had five living children. Marie
became a nun Sr. M. Laurene in the Franciscan order
in Joliet, Ill. Lucy married Orson Foster in New
York and had two living children, now deceased.
Bernadine married Charles Myers and had one child,
a son. Clarence Fetter married his high school sweetheart,
Mary Stalder and had eighth children. He was a plumber
and very successful. Rowena married Andy who died.
She then married a widower Anthony Smilgelski. Alice
married Leonard Newmarker a Jew who later embraced
the Catholic Faith. No children were born, two were
adopted. Both Alice and Leonard are deceased. Grandmother
Amalia Fetter died on May 24, 1964 at age 87 yrs.
Grandpa Fetter worked in a foundry and was a pattern
maker. In those days men had a trade as it was called.
Without that men would be called a laborer. Grandpa
had a trade. Grandpa was very active at that time
in the labor movement and was barred from many foundries.
We had labor union meetings at our home and the
voices were raised pretty high. I can remember sitting
in the corner in the dining room unseen listening
when I was about ten years old and thinking Papa
was using some pretty big words. After Grandma Doersam
Fetter died her son Frank was willed enough money
to build our home on 475 Siebert Street, Columbus,
Ohio. It was a six room house with an attic. The
house was set back from the street and we had a
front and side lawn without a weed in it. As time
went by and the girls were growing up the bath room
was finished. I was about six years old when Papa
built the house and remember Gertrude wheeling the
buggy as we called it with Uncle Clarence in it
and I was holding on at the side. We were leaving
our house on Bruck Street for good. I remember in
our back yard on Siebert St. we had vegetables growing.
In the back alongside the alley there was a shed.
Half was used for tools, etc. and the other half
housed the chickens at night. There was a fenced
in chicken yard. The chicken nests were in the enclosed
house where the hens would lay their eggs. Our house
was cleaned every week and before we had a carpet
sweeper, the rugs that were not nailed down were
put on a line and beaten with a carpet beater. The
nailed down ones were swept with a broom. We had
a piano in the parlor and we took piano lessons
from Miss Ackerman 75 ¢ a lesson. The dining
room was in the center. It had a huge side-board
a round table in the center with a yellow dome that
resembled a flower hanging from the ceiling. We
would do our home work from school there. Papa usually
sat in front of the pot bellied stove drinking his
"growler" of beer that one of us got for
him at Bernhard's Saloon. The fire in the stove
was always lit after super and it was a chore for
one of us to fill the coal bucker and bring the
wood to start the fire. We did our piano practice
with the folding doors between the parlor and "sitting
room" and dining room closed. After Aunt Louise
and Uncle Charley married they would join us in
the sitting room each Wednesday evening. Uncle Charley
had gone to some operas and would tell us about
them. Christmas was always a big occasion. We always
received games and gloves, dolls and my Aunt Lena
Reiser on my mother's side would dress as Santa.
We would stand in a row and she would disguise her
voice and asked us if we said our prayers and sometimes
have us say one for her. After a while we deducted
who Santa really was. Aunt Lena was always late
coming. In the kitchen on the table Mama put out
some of her Christmas cookies and nuts. There was
a Christmas tree in the parlor. No electric lights,
it was lit with candles. Before Aunt Louise was
married she would come with two sisters also maiden
ladies who were her friends by the name of Wagner.
Grandma Agel was living and would also come. She
also lived on Siebert St. in her own little home
about a block away. A few years ago I had occasion
to be in Columbus with Mary Alice and Ned Kirby
and we took a ride down Siebert St. and I think
495 is still the best on the street and Grandma
Agel's house is still there. Aunt Teenie & Uncle
Joe Agel lied behind Grandma Agel on Stewart St.
or was the street called Germania St. Getting back
to Christmas. Uncle Charley was foreman at the Butterine
Factory in Columbus. His job consisted of maintenance.
So much liquid being used in the factory caused
wood to rot easily and there was always replacement.
He was a carpenter and made a beautiful church for
the Fetters to put under the Christmas tree. A light
was put inside to light up the windows. Years later
Mama gave the church to me and the Mraz family used
it. Later I gave the church to one of the Mraz boys
I think Paul. Growing up in Columbus was an exciting
time. At the end of Siebert St. was Schiller Park.
The name was changed to Washington Park during he
second World War Schiller being a German poet. The
park is called Schiller Park again. Also the street
adjacent to the park was Schiller Street and changed
to Whitacre St. and still is Whitacre. The park
was at the end of Siebert St. During the winter
we would take our sleds and coast down the hill
in the park. In summer we would roll down. St. Mary's
School picnic was held there at the end of the school
year. Grandma Agel would stand at the gate and give
us 5¢ towards the money we had to spend at
the picnic. Also when we were in our teens we would
congregate there on Sunday afternoons. We always
went to Vespers on Sunday and would meet and walk
to the park afterward. We also went to one another
homes. Sometimes we would stop at Margaret Hohman's
and also Marie Klarman who later married Albert
Miller. Homan's Drug Store was on the corner of
Whitacre and Bruck Streets and the family lived
upstairs. Marie Klarman Miller's mother was Swiss
and her father always reminded me of Conrad Adnauer
and was German. We had many parties at the Klarman
and Fetter homes. Marie was good at playing all
the songs at the piano and we would all stand around
and sing and play games. I didn't have many boy
friends. I was kept busy going to night school.
The ones that did show up I didn't care for. The
First World War was on and Gertrude's boy friend
came back shell-shocked and their friendship ended.
She later met Jim Burns. I think the shell shocked
one wanted to come back but Gertrude had only eyes
for Jim Burns. Jay Culp whose father owned a brick
yard in the South end of Columbus never married.
One of the Fetter girls went to school with a niece
of Jay when the name seemed familiar to her she
asked if she had a sister Gertrude. She said her
uncle Jay had a drawer full of letters written to
him by her while he was overseas in the war. Even
after Jim Burns' death he wanted to come back. He
went to the same church and one time he followed
her and stopped his car and wanted to talk but Gertrude
would have none of it. One of the girls at Chase
Foundry where I worked knitted a sweater during
the war and put her name and address in it. Knitting,
bandage making and other helpful things were done
for the boys overseas. Marguerite Dowling was her
name. Charles Mraz received the sweater she knitted
and they corresponded. She got to know the family
in Canton, Ohio and after a while invited Anne and
Mary to her home. It was a hen party she had for
them and invited Gertrude and me. A hen party was
called that because it was all female. At that time
we were getting Sr. Laurene ready to enter the convent
and Anne was so interested. I think at the time
she was thinking about entering but she never made
it. We became good friends and we corresponded.
I was good at writing letters. Anne's handwriting
was beautiful. After a while she invited me to Canton
for a visit. Fourth of July happened over a week
end that year and I went to Canton, Ohio. Anne and
Mary met the train. I wore my best clothes. The
next morning was Saturday and Anne was secretary
to the President of RS&B and was asked to work.
She liked the hat I wore when I came and I put it
on her. She had to come back upstairs for something
and said "Ed loves your hat." I didn't
know she had a brother. I heard the door slam once
then another time I hastened to the window thinking
that must be the brother. He also had to work. I
saw a well dressed, tall slender man tipping his
hat to someone across the street. I sat on the porch
at noon with my best dress on waiting to meet the
brother. He came and said you must be the Helen
I saw in a picture. Aunt Louise before her marriage
used to take us to see Sr. Laurene in the convent
and pictures were always taken. As I said Anne and
I corresponded a lot and I sent her pictures. Ed
asked me to go to Myers Lake with him in the afternoon.
We danced and went on all the rides and had a hilarious
time. We walked home. Ed didn't have a car. We had
a hike around Canton and Sunday came too fast. I
had to be back at Chase Foundry on Monday morning.
On Sunday Ed took me to the train station and bought
a magazine and box of candy for me. I read the magazine
on the train but saved the candy to give Mama as
a present. Coming home Mama said I looked different.
She wanted to know all about my trip. The crowd
I ran around with was having a 4th of July picnic
and Mama thought it odd I would forego a picnic.
She couldn't have known I met the man of my life
at that time. Having such a wonderful time in Canton
a "thank you" note was in order. I didn't
want to seem forward and I addressed Ed as "Dr.
Dudley" in my note. That was in July 1921 and
after a few letters from him and my answer was to
"Ed". He had beautiful handwriting and
was gifted in many ways. He skipped grades in grade
school and in a "spelling Bee" won spelling
the whole town down at a very early age. He was
given a picture as a prize as I recall it had Madonnas
framed in an oblong frame. When Eddie Mraz was born
to Bernard and Yuriko Mraz I sent it to him hoping
he would take after his grandfather. It seems young
Eddie has. I hear he is exceptionally intelligent.
Right before my first visit to canton Ed Mraz had
broken his engagement to a Canton girl named Berta
Zigler and later at Christmas when he was mailing
a gift (a beautiful handbag) to me he met her and
she asked if they couldn't patch things up. He told
her it was too late. I received a letter each day
after a while and after we were engaged it was always
"My dear and only Helen". The two younger
Fetter children were seven and nine, Alice and Rowena,
knew where I kept my letters and would sneak in
the drawer and read them. They would tease me about
my boy friend. After I received my engagement ring
I didn't wear it to the office. I didn't want them
to know I was engaged. Lucy at the time was working
in the office at the Railway Station and took my
ring from the dresser drawer and wore it to the
office. The first time Ed came to Canton Mama had
just had her teeth drawn and waiting for the false
ones. She didn't want to meet Ed without her teeth
and sat in the kitchen. Ed just walked out in the
kitchen to meet her. At first Mama was reluctant
me marrying someone out of the city and said "Can't
you find somebody in Columbus" but after he
sent a barrel of enamelware to her it was all OK
and they became fast friends and Ed was very fond
of Mama. Ed and Papa didn't have much in common.
Ed didn't drink or smoke and Papa was the opposite.
Also Republic Stamping & Enameling Co. was not
unionized. On one of Mama and Papa's visits to Canton
Ed took them to see the Company and going thru Papa
found they were not unionized and he immediately
talked to the people at work about how they should
unionize. Ed got Mama and Papa out of there pretty
quick. It might have been a good idea to have them
unionize or have some kind of pension. As it was
when Ed died there was nothing after Ed being employed
at first as P.M. Seymour's secretary then climbing
up the ladder to become Purchasing Agent and Traffic
Manager, the time employed by R.S.&E. Co. being
about 35 years. A Box Co. in Cleveland seeing the
potential in Ed offered him a job at a higher salary
and would move him and his family. When Ed confronted
Mr. Seymour about the change he told Ed that he
Seymour was an old man and his job as an executive
would be his, Ed's, soon. It so happened that Mr.
Seymour had a son about ready for a job and one
day Ed heard Seymour coaching this son in the office
routine for his job. It must have hurt Ed badly.
Ed was an honest worker and during the war when
materials were hard to come by he would take work
home. Ed often said I do the work while Seymour
is looking out of the window. I think the company
felt Ed's loss. I have a poem written about him
by Denny Hiser an employee how much Ed was loved
by everyone and what a good honest man he was. Coming
to Mass one Sunday shortly after Ed's death and
in front of the church a man was getting out of
his car and called to me and said Mrs. Mraz you
think your husband died of a heart attack - Not
so, he died of a broken heart. I was so bereaved
at the time I didn't question the man. I didn't
know him and all I said is "Is that so."
Since, I've been sorry not questioning the gentleman
what really did happen. R.S.&E. Co. must have
felt some remorse - they paid the funeral expenses.
When Ed was a very young man he started to work
at "The Wheeling & Lake Erie Railroad"
and was secretary to P.M. Seymour and would travel
with him in the railroad car for days and sometimes
longer. Then when Seymour and the Fawcetts founded
R.S.&E. Ed stuck with Seymour. Mr. Seymour didn't
have much luck with his family. He wife was killed
in an auto accident taking the maid home. I was
working in the office at Mercy Hospital after Ed
died at the time when they brought her in and no
room was available. I went back to the X-ray department
where she was and saw as I thought not much time
left. I asked Sr. Loretta Clair to find a room for
her and call her minister that the patient looked
like she was dying. Sr. did find a room. She died
shortly afterward. There were two children. The
girl was a maiden lady and librarian at Ohio State
U. and died with a peculiar disease. She wrote poetry
and one time Mrs. Seymour sent a copy of her poems
to me. The company R.S.&E didn't last long after
Ed's death. He, Ed, died at his desk 2-20-47. Wilbur
Frey at R.S.&E. Comptroller took care of everything
financially. The company sold out to Ecko Products
Co. about two years after Ed's death. Some employees
said if Ed had been here we would have had material
up to the ceiling. Republic Stamping & Enameling
Co. (R.S.&E) during the 2nd W.W. did government
work. The Company realizing their short comings
in regards to salary, etc. decided to pay for Ed's
funeral as I said earlier. There were Bernard and
Mary Alice at Lehman High School, Paul was in the
USA Air Force being drafted, Davie and Jim were
in the Army, they being in ROTC at Ohio State |University
when war broke out an automatically in the army.
We belonged to St. John's Church in Canton, Ohio
and just about the time Jim graduated from grade
school at St. Johns there was a high school built,
but Ed seeing the potential in his children decided
they should go to Lehman High School, the best in
the city. Before that we were in McKinley High territory
and Ed didn't want the children to go there. That
is one reason we sold our house on Bluff Rd and
moved in Lehman High territory on 13th St. One person
couldn't get in Case Western Reserve after applying
there and going to St. Johns because of not having
learned the essential subjects. St. Johns High has
now been abolished. After Ed's death I stayed home
for a year. One day Anne and Mary Mraz came to see
me and suggested I get a job. They knew many maiden
ladies at Mercy Hospital a Catholic hospital run
by nuns. I applied and they gave me a job in the
X ray Dept. I would admit X-ray patients. There
was so much hustle and bustle I couldn't take after
the trauma of Ed's death. I called Sr. Marie the
one who hired me and told her and all she said I
should stay home today and come in tomorrow which
I did. They then put me in the Admitting Office.
There were three desks in the room. Sr. Loretta
Clair gave out the room at one desk and the other
two were used by Clara Born, a good friend of Ed's
when he was living. He used to work with her sister
on the Rail Road. The other desk was mine. The patients
would come in when called. They liked my work I
wrote legibly. After a while seeing I could work
in the office where I worked with another good friend
of the Mrazes, Anne Balloun. I posted payments and
would balance each day. Also, I would do jobs for
Anne Balloun who saw to it that bills were paid.
I worked there five years when I decided to sell
my home and move to Columbus. I used to visit Columbus
on week ends going with Harry Callahan. His sister
lived behind Aunt Gertrude and Uncle Jim and I would
go and come with him. He was a friend of Ed. He
was an engineer and traveled by boat to Europe quite
often. He at one time made the Stations of the Cross
out of clay for the Sisters at St Johns School.
I heard he made the Stations while traveling by
boat to Europe. I was with Mercy Hospital for five
years. One part of Mercy Hospital facing Market
Street was the old McKinley Home and was used as
the Maternity Building when my first son Jim was
born. President McKinley is buried in Canton, Ohio
in a hill that could be seen from our upstairs window
on the hill the Mraz boys and Mary Alice could ski.
The children were young when their father died at
age 53 years. Paulo, David & Jim graduated from
Lehman High. Paul was Valedictorian of his class.
Jim was in the Army being drafted after being in
ROTC at Ohio State University. David also after
being in ROTC at OSU. Paul was in the Army being
drafted after graduation from Lehman High. Then
after the war he entered Case Western Reserve in
Cleveland, Ohio. Bernard enlisted in the army and
finished high school there. He had one semester
to go when he decided Lehman High was too much for
him. He learned a trade in the army and was in for
22 years. Mary Alice graduated from Lehman High
and went to Marquette University. After all this
I decided to sell our home and move to Columbus,
Ohio. I lived on Woodruff Ave. until Mary Alice
graduated from Marquette. We took an apartment in
Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I found a job and worked in
a Maternity Shoppe. When Mary Alice got a bid for
a job in Washington I went with her where we lived
at McLean Gardens. In Washington I took a job at
Georgetown University Hospital as receptionist for
Patti Grimaila who was head nurse for incoming nurses
and doctors and all personel relating to patient
caring. I would take their prospectus and give it
to Patti and she would then interview the person.
I worked six days a week and sometimes on Sunday
doing typing for different offices. I was missing
a lot of sight seeing in Washington working and
after a couple of years decided to ask for a job
at Best & Co. a few blocks from McLean Gardens
where we lived. Best & Co. was a very prestigious
ladies wear store. One day I helped Mamie Eisenhower
in the girdle department. But after leaving Georgetown
U. Hosp. Patti Grimaila and Martha Fetter remained
my friends and we would see one another often. At
Best & Co. I became a good friend to Marily
Joly a French lady who had charge of the Alteration
department. I learned about altering womens suits
and dresses just watching her in the fitting room
after selling the suit or dress. Marily Joly and
I became good friends and went out together often
going to see different places of interest in Washington.
Also, she became a friend to Martha Fetter and Pattie
Grimaila the nurses at Geo. U. Hosp. All came to
Mary Alice's wedding at St. Ann's church in Washington.
I stayed in Washington a few years after Mary Alice's
wedding then asked to be transferred to Best &
Co. in Boston. Ned and Mary Alice helped me find
an apartment at 61 Commonwealth Ave. I was close
to Best & Co. and I enjoyed working there. Many
college girls lived downstairs on Commonwealth and
we became friends. The job was getting so I would
be very tired. I was 63 and I decided to quit working
and take my Social Security. I then bought a house
in Whitman but that proved too much to care for.
I sold it and moved on Washington St. in Whitman
closer to Holy Ghost Catholic Church. I went to
Mass every morning and while living in the house
I bought Msgr. Frawley came to my door and asked
me to help him out as cook for the rectory. The
cook he brought along from Boston when he was transferred
to Whitman wanted to visit her homeland Ireland.
She hadn't been there in years. I was teaching Catechism
at the time and I told Msgr. I couldn't that I was
teaching catechism and he said I'll get someone
in your place. I took lessons for teaching catechism
and have a diploma for the same. I remember asking
him why he would choose me and he said he thinks
I have the time and he sees me at Mass in the mornings
also I look like I could do it. How could I refuse.
He wanted me to stay at the rectory over night but
I wanted to go home. So each night he would drive
me home and come after me at six o'clock each morning.
I would eat breakfast with Msgr. and his huge black
dog had a place at the table and the dog would slop
his breakfast and take vitamins. One morning sitting
opposite me I winked at the dog and he winked back.
He was very well trained. I think the curate Fr.
Hamrack and Fr. King thought of me as their mother.
I would bake cookies and put fruit out on the table
and would see them pocket some going out. I did
nothing but do the planning meals, ordering food
and cooking. There was other help to wash dishes
and clean. After about three months and even after
the regular cook came home Msgr. asked me to stay
that he would build an apartment for me above the
huge garage. I decided then to leave. When I first
came I told Msgr. that I didn't want pay and he
wouldn't hear of it. Holy Ghost Church had no other
place to teach catechism than in the church. In
the meantime Spellman Hall was built with rooms
for teaching, a huge hall and other odd places.
One Sunday Msgr. asked for donations to fit a room
for teaching and the amount was $500.00. I figured
I earned about that much as cook and decided to
furnish a room. When I approached Msgr. with my
wanting to furnish a room, he said he would not
think of taking money from a widow and I asked him
if he would accept $500.00 in memory of my husband.
He couldn't refuse and now there is a bronze placard
on one of the doors - "In Memory of Edward
M. Mraz". When I lived on Washington St. in
Whitman after selling the house I bought after retiring
I was feeling so good I decided not to take the
Thyroid Pills I had been taking for years and was
told I had to take the rest of my life. While with
Patti Grimaila at Georgetown U. Hosp. she had me
take a test for my thyroid and found me underactive.
I started to have trouble after a while and wound
up a very ill person with three broken vertebrae.
The thyroid metabolizes your whole system and when
that is out of order it takes calcium from the bones
to feed the blood. I was in and out of the hospital
several times and got much better but not quite
up to where I had been before. My sister Bernadine
visited me when living on Washington St. and saw
I wasn't quite myself and it was a time where there
was a heat shortage and she got a sore throat shortly
after coming to Whitman. She persuaded me to come
back with her to Columbus. Bernadine took me around
to find a suitable place for me to live. We found
Jaycee Arms on E. Main St. in Columbus. I liked
it. It was a beautiful place to live and across
the street from Holy Cross Catholic Church. The
Notre Dame convent was next door and after I became
acquainted with the ladies they asked me to join
the Tabernacle Society. We made vestments and other
articles and some were sent to Catholic countries.
We would meet each Wednesday morning, stay for lunch
in the Notre Dame dining hall and leave about three
PM. Sr. Francis Xavier became my good friend and
ever after I left Columbus I would hear from her.
The last time I saw her was at Aunt Bernadine's
90th Birthday Party July 11th, 1986. At one time
Sr. Camilla Burns was in charge of the convent.
Paul Mraz visited me while I lived at Jaycee Arms.
He was on a business trip and stopped in Columbus
to visit me over Sunday. Father McNulty was pastor
of Holy Cross and on that Sunday he asked for donations
to buy the organ Holy Family church was selling.
The price was $3000.00. At the time I had accumulated
Teledyne Stock I was distributing to the Ed Mraz
children and Paul and I talked it over and we decided
to give some to Father McNulty for the organ and
he was very thankful. My thought was that our family
had been blessed and what a beautiful way to thank
the Good Lord for all His Blessings. Holy Cross
Catholic Church is one of the oldest Catholic Churches
in the United States and has beautiful stained glass
windows and murals painted on the walls. Being so
old it was deteriorating and was going to be torn
down but thru the efforts of Sr. Camilla and the
Notre Dame convent it received Federal Aid to restore
it. When Holy Cross was built the French and Germans
helped financially. I lived at Jaycee Arms for over
nine years and enjoyed good health with my sisters
and brother. We would gather and play cards, go
to the theater and all in all enjoying ourselves.
Then a lady who lived below me at Jaycee Arms smoked
all night and the fumes would enter my bed room.
I am very allergic to tobacco smoke. I complained
to the Manager and he could do nothing about it.
But after a while did speak to the lady after he
saw I was losing my voice. I visited in Whitman,
Mass. and Mary Alice Kirby persuaded me to come
live with them with the idea of finding a place
for me similar to the Jacyee Arms. I was with the
Kirbys four years and enjoyed my friends I had before
when living in Whitman. I belonged to the Garden
Club, Women's Club and was active at church. Mary
Alice and Ned were visiting in Washington, D.C.
with daughter Jane and I went with them as far as
Paul and Sally Mraz's home. They were aware of my
wanting an apartment and Sally took me around to
different ones. I decided on one at Colonial Gardens.
I had to take a two bed room at first until a one
was available. I moved in the two bed room in Sept.
1986 and stayed with Sally and Paul until my furniture
and belongings from Whitman arrived. In May 1987
a one bed room apartment was available and Paul,
Sally and the Mraz boys moved me. I like my apartment
very much. There is no noise or smoking and my neighbors
are wonderful. Everything I need is around. The
Senior Center is close by and I play cards "
Bridge" and " Pinochle" there and
sometimes " Bingo". In the evenings some
of the ladies sit out under the trees and I join
them. On May 17, 1988 I reached the age of 90 years
and Sally and Paul arranged a beautiful party. Jim
and Ruth came from Michigan, Jane and David from
California, Mary Alice and Ned from Massachusetts.
All of Paul and Sally's children and their kin were
there. Jane Kirby Zaki and her new husband and Fares'
parents from Rome. Jane's new inlaws were here for
her wedding which happened in May in Washington,
D.C. Jim Burns and Pat from Washington were there.
A big surprise when my dear friend from Washington
days Patti Grimaila came. She now lives in Arizona.
I remember her visiting her in Arizona when Jane
Kirby was nine years old and we were on our way
to California. Also I remember Patti visiting in
Whitman when I lived there. Sally and Paul worked
hard to make it a time to be remembered by all.
They had a 1913 car which was open call for me and
seven of my good friends from Colonial Gardens to
go to the party, which was under a huge tent. There
was a Mass said at noon and delicious food and drink
was served on beautifully decorated tables. I live
now in a very comfortable apartment in Colonial
Gardens 334 E. Main St. Apt. C-9, Newark, Del. and
hope to complete my life there.
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